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Name: The Art of Gathering
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Author: Priya Parker

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In “The Art of Gathering,” Priya Parker argues that the gatherings in our lives don't have to be as lackluster and unproductive as we make them. When we bring people together, we concentrate on routines and conventions of gathering, rather than focus on distinctiveness and the people involved. In our society today, gathering is more important than ever. If we can understand why these gatherings are memorable, we can reframe and redirect them to benefit both the guests and the host. Priya Parker gives a human-centered approach to gathering to help everyone create meaningful, memorable experiences, large and small, for work and for play. Drawing on years of experience facilitating high-powered gatherings all over the world, Parker takes us inside events of all kinds to give us an insight into what works, what doesn’t, and why. She investigates a wide array of gatherings from conferences to meetings to flash-mob parties and explains how simple, specific changes can invigorate any group experience.

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Summary of The Art of Gathering
About the author
What is The Art of Gathering about?
Who should read The Art of Gathering
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first key point

As crucial as gathering is to us as humans, we rarely make an effort to do it right

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Gathering, according to Priya Parker, is the deliberate bringing together of people for a particular purpose. As humans, gathering, especially how we do it, matters a lot. It helps determine the kind of world we live in and shapes the way we think, feel, and make sense of our world.

All over the world, governments understand the tremendous power in gathering. In democracies, the freedom to assemble is one of the fundamental human rights. In authoritarian societies, the first thing to get taken away from the masses is the right to assemble. The reason for this is that revolutions are often birthed when people come together, exchange information, and inspire one another.

And yet, as powerful as gathering can be, the majority of us spend very little time thinking about the actual ways in which we assemble. We spend our lives gathering — first in our families, then in neighborhoods and playgroups, schools and churches, and then in meetings, parties, conferences, class and family reunions, etc. And we spend much of that time in bland, underwhelming moments that don't change us in any way, or connect us to one another.

Studies have shown that much of the time we spend in gatherings with other people disappoint us. For instance, the State of Enterprise Work survey found in 2015 that employees’ top obstacles to getting work done were “wasteful meetings.” Likewise, in 2016, Duncan Green, a specialist in international development confessed in an article in the Guardian: “With the occasional exception, my mood in conferences usually swings between boredom, despair, and rage.”

However, as much as our gatherings disappoint us, we often keep gathering in the same tired ways. When we bring people together, we remain on autopilot, following stale formulas, hoping that the chemistry of a good meeting, conference, or party will somehow take care of itself. We expect that the same old inputs will magically yield thrilling results. It’s almost always a vain hope.

Fortunately, anyone can gather well. You don’t need to be an extrovert or have a fancy house or title.

There are simple yet powerful guidelines for organizing effective and memorable gatherings. You'll learn about them all in this summary.

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When thinking of convening people, you must first commit to a purpose for the gathering

The art of organizing memorable gatherings starts with a purpose: When should you convene people? And why?

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third key point

Close the doors: great gatherers are not afraid to leave people out of their events

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Exerting your authority as a host is an essential step to better gathering

fifth key point

Priming your guests will better enable you to guide them into the experience of your gathering

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Unleashing realness and authenticity in your guests will make your gatherings more memorable

seventh key point

Accept that there is an end to every gathering and make your closings count

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What is The Art of Gathering about?

In this thought-provoking book, the author explores the significance of gatherings and the impact they have on our lives. Through captivating anecdotes and insightful analysis, she delves into the art of creating meaningful and transformative experiences. From intimate dinners to large conferences, Parker offers practical advice on how to design gatherings that foster connection, purpose, and authenticity. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to understand the power of gathering and its potential to shape our relationships and communities.

Who should read The Art of Gathering

Event planners and organizers seeking to create meaningful gatherings.
Individuals looking to enhance their social and professional interactions.
Anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of human connection.

Topics in The Art of Gathering

Social Skills Communication Psychology Leadership Group Dynamics Community Building Human Behavior Sociology Personal Development Relationships Team Building Networking

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